Live workshop · 2 days · Cluj · September 2026
ConsciousRelationshipsWorkshop
Andrea Varadi Goia & Remus Ranca
We go to school for 12 years to calculate the area of a triangle we will never draw. About the one thing we experience every single day - relationships - no one ever taught us anything. Life throws us straight into the exam, with no prep and no time to study, starting from the very moment we are born. The first relationship is with our mother, even before we open our eyes.
I see you. I hear you. I understand you.
I want to join →What this is about
This workshop is not about the perfect relationship. No such relationship exists.
We're not here to act like relationship gurus, handing down lessons from a place of superiority. We don't have all the answers either.
This workshop is about YOUR AWARENESS in every relationship you have.
And the most important one is the relationship with yourself. Only from this place can you understand life and others. Your parents, friends, and, of course, your romantic partner.
Who do you allow to invade your mind, your heart, and your body?
This workshop is about TRUTH. I invite you to a powerful and honest dialogue, to look at relationships, to enter every unspoken corner, every unshared pain, every unexpressed feeling. Let's invite everything to the surface together, in a safe space. We cannot change what we don't know.
This workshop is about YOU.
Saturday · Day 1
The relationship with yourself
There's no point repairing the connection with someone else while you're on autopilot with yourself. So we begin exactly where you're hoping we won't: with you.
Presence and awareness. Exercises that gently take you out of your comfort zone - not to make you feel bad, but so you can see yourself. You'll discover deep parts of yourself, the mechanisms and patterns manifesting in your interactions, and you'll know what's not working for you. You'll learn to feel yourself rather than analyse yourself endlessly, and you will ask the questions you've been elegantly avoiding for years.
What does a relationship mean to me? And the relationship with myself?
Moments of sharing in a safe space, where you're challenged with kindness, not exposed. By the end you have something few people have: a conscious relationship with yourself.
- The relationship with your parents and family;
- The relationship with your friends;
- The relationship with your past;
- The relationship with life itself.
Sunday · Day 2
Your romantic relationship
This is where our own stories come in - from us, not from books. Held together with Remus, with guided exercises you do in pairs, in a circle, alone or in role-play.
- What a relationship actually is - and why your "communication" so far has been, technically, an exchange of press releases;
- Healthy dynamics vs. the aggressor-victim power game - the roles we swap between us with a dexterity worthy of a better cause;
- Energetic manipulation and abuse - what it looks like when it arrives perfumed and "out of care," without leaving bruises;
- Intimacy and sexuality for real, not from magazines: sexual energy and true connection - including the polite self-abuse nobody names over dinner.
Taboo topics, discussed openly, in a way that happens almost nowhere in public. You go home knowing concretely what to do to take a relationship to the next level.
What you take home
What stays with you
You truly know yourself
You'll look at yourself with acceptance and a lot of understanding, not with the usual list of self-criticisms and complaints.
Relationship as growth ground
You'll see a relationship not as a lottery, but as the fastest path to personal growth.
Real, applied communication
You will understand what real, authentic communication is, and you will be able to apply it immediately in your life.
You know what you want
You will understand who you are, and you will know what you truly want in a relationship.
Toxicity detector
You'll recognise toxic dynamics, power struggles and abuse, so you can handle them when they appear.
No taboos
We'll discuss intimacy and sexuality openly, in a way that doesn't happen in public.
Tools
You will leave with concrete tools to apply in your everyday life.
This workshop is for you if:
- You keep repeating the same type of relationship with different people, and you're starting to suspect that the common denominator is you;
- You know how to do anything except simply say: “this is what I need”;
- You're tired of confusing drama with passion and tension with connection;
- You want to understand what abuse is, because you want to recognize it before you experience it;
- You're ready to have conversations about intimacy without looking down, ashamed;
- You're inexplicably drawn to this workshop (your intuition always knows).
From the room
What connection looks like
No posing, no performance. This is what happens when people finally let themselves be seen.
Who guides you
Two perspectives
On day 2, Andrea brings the feminine perspective. Remus, the masculine one. What she sees and what he sees meet in the same dynamic - so you can see them both.
Facilitator
Andrea Varadi Goia
Motivational speaker, coach and facilitator of over 20 live workshops on healing, presence and inner awakening. Creator of the See With Your Heart workshop, which hundreds of people have been through.
In Conscious Relationships she guides the return to yourself: presence, awareness and the relationship with your own self - the foundation every other relationship is built on.
Andrea's story →
Guest facilitator
Remus Ranca
Not from a pedestal and not as an “expert on women,” but as a man who does his work in plain sight. For over five years he has worked 1:1 with people at the point where something can no longer continue the same way - and he sees his own patterns with the same honesty he asks of the other.
On Day 2 he brings the masculine perspective into the couple's dynamic: the power to need no one doesn't make you mature, it keeps you alone. That's what he talks about - from experience, not from a sermon.
Get in touch →Testimonials
What it's like to work with Andrea
When I came to you, I was disappointed by the sessions offered by a psychologist. I knew there had to be someone who would make me aware of my needs and not make me feel like I was in therapy. And then you appeared. The first session was a revelation. I left your office with even more questions, but with the certainty that I had found the right person. What I am today is largely due to you. Thank you with all my heart.
I came to Andrea at a difficult moment in my life, when I felt that no one understood me. I was at a crossroads and this feeling kept me from making any decision. Andrea radiates such powerful energy that from the very first moment all my walls came crashing down. Although I had heard countless times that all the answers are within me, in our meetings, Andrea truly proved it to me! I thank her with all my heart for all the support she offered!
Before I came to you, I didn't believe in this kind of technique. But since we started working together, I see the results and I love the “new me” who isn't afraid to speak openly. In our sessions, I feel good, ready to release my problems. When we work together, I have a feeling of deep inner peace that I haven't had since childhood. I love your warmth.
The techniques you use bring about very rapid changes and integrate deeply in a short time, so much so that I use them instinctively, in different situations. You are very calm, open, optimistic and full of life. I feel comfortable in your presence, I feel accepted no matter what I say or what happens. It gives me great pleasure to work with you!
Meeting Andrea is like this: you come to her with a topic to discuss, the topic is exhausted in 5 minutes and then, somehow, she manages to take you to the heart of the matter, which lies somewhere other than the original story. She juggles your defense mechanisms with such ease and then goes straight to the target. The way she serves you the truth is unmistakable, full of compassion, empathy, love and support. You feel encouraged, strong and empowered to move forward.
Andrea, I found you at the perfect moment, when I was looking for clarity. I came into your office confused and angry. We did a simple exercise that demolished my story and brought the clarity I was looking for. Somehow, since then, I have set out on a new path, a path of self-discovery. You radiate warmth, gentleness and wisdom. Thank you with all my heart for touching my life!
Choose your spot
The couple's rate can't be combined with early bird.
It's not a relationship course like any other. It's the syllabus you should have taken ten years ago.
Logistics
What you need to know
- Format2 live days - Saturday + Sunday
- LocationCluj-Napoca
- Schedule10:00 – 18:30 each day
- GroupLimited spots (~50 people)
- Who it's forCome solo or as a couple - the focus is first on the relationship with yourself
- FacilitationAndrea Varadi Goia in collaboration with Remus Ranca
- DateTo be announced soon
